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Scorpio

Ruling Planet: Pluto & Mars

Symbol: The Scorpion

Gender: Feminine

Element: Water

Quality: fixed

 

 

Scorpios In General:

Scorpio is a fixed water sign, ruled by the dark mysterious planet Pluto, and co-ruled by aggressive Mars. Like their namesake, Scorpios are best left alone since their capacity to inflict pain is pronounced. Scorpios can be very charming as well as aggressive, and their interest and abilities in the sexual sphere are well known of course. Much like Virgos, Scorpios lead hidden lives and often cultivate an air of mystery around them. They have a fatal attraction to money and power, and they were put on this earth to go through extreme events and undergo deep transformations. Scorpios are all about transformation. They often meet certain people that are in they're lives for a very meaningful reason. These people around them may or may not already realize that Scorpio pushes people beyond their normal limit so they can help them evolve into the person that they were destined to be. Scorpios tend to have this magnetic aura that surrounds them that makes people want to open up and tell them all of they're problems. They have a grandiose healing spirit that others can sense and are drawn to. They are often the people who help unveil the things within yourself that you are afraid to face, and they love nothing more than to help you. Scorpios are very good listeners, and they give great advice. They are also very resourceful/knowledgeable and usually won't speak on things that they aren't 100% certain about. So if you want a real honest opinion, my advice would be to ask a Scorpio. They are not afraid of failure and are more than capable of getting themselves out of a dilemma without any help. Scorpios are strategists, nothing is ever done without giving it any thought first. Here is my word of advice: Never think that you've got your Scorpio figured out. Scorpios hold many many secrets and will take most of them to their grave. Sometimes you might get lucky enough to hear a few, that is only if they truly trust you. Oh and btw, don't ever try to pry anything out of a Scorpio that they don't feel comfortable talking about. Trust me, if they wanted you to know, they would tell you. If not, they either don't trust you 100%, or they feel that you're not worthy of their secrets, or they simply sometimes would rather just keep certain things inside they're own head.

Scorpio Men:

The Scorpio man has a very strong presence that surrounds him. When he enters a room, you can literally feel the energy shift and all eyes will be on him. That is because he has an enormous amount of sex appeal. Even if he's not the most handsome thing you've ever laid eyes on, Something about him is just plain irresistable. Sometimes you just can't quite figure out what it is about him that makes him so charming. The truth is though, it doesn't even matter because it's there, it's real, and it's natural. Scorpio men are very strong willed and have strong opinions & morals. Once they have their mind set on something, he usually won't quit until he reaches his goals. He is not easily swayed out of his thoughts or opinions on things. Scorpio men  makes an attentive entrepreneur, a very Loyal friend/companion, and a great leader. He likes to be 100% sure that everything he does in life is something he will eventually be proud of. Scorpio men are very confident in their approach and they are often portrayed as aggressive (although that's not always the case). It takes a lot of time to reveal the mysteries that lie beneath Scorpio's  mask. Stubborn and controlling, (being a fixed sign- the word fixed comes from the Latin root "fixus" which means to latch on or fasten to), Scorpio latches on to the one he loves with a possessive nature that can be either comforting or suffocating. Your challenge will be to understand the intensity of your Scorpio's world & figure out whether or not you can really enjoy it or let alone live with it.

Scorpio Woman:

The Scorpio woman is a very deep passionate person and everything that she does, she does with extreme intensity. She is very passionate about the things that matter most to her including her work, friendships, relationships, family etc. They love hard, but they hate even harder. With the Scorpio woman, everything is either black or white- there is no in-between. In other words, she either will like you or she will hate you. Scorpio women have a strange sense of humor. They almost always use sarcasm when it comes to cracking jokes. They're also good at mimicking people or making clever comebacks when insulted. Sometimes they get so carried away in trying to be funny that they end up (unintentionally) hurting other peoples feelings. On the other hand, Scorpios are very selective when it comes to making friends(so if they pick you, you should feel honored) They are very loyal! They would never let anybody talk bad  about one of they're friends. If your best friend is a Scorpio, you can always count on them to be there through the thick and thin. They usually only have 2 or 3 real friends. Which is perfectly fine with them. They don't like to hang out with big crowds or have 20 different friends to hang out with, to them that's way too much work. They'd rather have one or two true friends that they know they can count on. When it comes to parenting, They are definitely the "mama bears" of the zodiac. Scorpio women make great mothers. They can be a bit over protective at times (not letting they're children out of sight) but they don't mean any harm, they just know that their are crazy people in the world, and will take every precaution possible to protect the ones that they love. When it comes to being in love, Scorpio's most definitely do not wear their heart on their sleeves. They tend to hold their truest feelings inside in fear of looking stupid or saying things to early on in a relationship (if they believe the other person does not feel the same as them just yet). Scorpio women SUCK at communicating, I can confirm this first hand because I am a Scorpio woman myself. (lol) Its not that they really suck at it, its just that they have this huge fear of rejection so deeply embedded inside their head. (which most likely comes from a traumatic childhood event.) Buuuutttt, When they do fall in-love though, they will be 100% devoted to that person as they do not like playing games nor wasting their time. They also don't like when others play games with them, or try to waste their time! That's when shit gets real, that's when the vengeful, spiteful side of the Scorpion comes out. She absolutely will not tolerate being cheated on, or betrayed, which often sadly happens to this sign a lot. (as they are the sign of extremes). She can sometimes stay in a situation for way longer than she knows she truly should, because she does not give up easily. In my opinion, Scorpio women are the strongest women of the zodiac they go through and deal with a lot of bullshit when it comes to people that they love. Ask any Scorpio woman you know about things that she has been through, I guarantee you will be in awe after hearing all the chilling details. I should also add that Scorpio women are very emotional. When Scorpio's choose to get involved which is rarely, and  selectively but always very deeply. This fact alone often guarantees a certain amount of pain and suffering in addition to the joy and ecstasy they will experience. In the end, falling in love with Scorpio can be well worth the headache because over all, they love hard and will fight for you until the very end. Who wouldn't want somebody like that?

Scorpio Children:

Scorpio children are known for their intense drive and genius minds. Scorpio children can be bossy & emotionally controlling/manipulative. Scorpio children are very good at coercing other children into doing things that they don’t really want to do. They are masters of bribing, and like I said before, they like to be in control. They like things to be done their way. If I had to give a parent of a Scorpio child advice, I would tell them the number one thing that I wish I had someone telling me when I was growing up. Always keep an eye on your Scorpio child, listen into their conversations that they have with their friends. If they are being bossy & trying to convince a friend to do things their way, pull them to the side and explain to them that everyone does things differently, and let them know that everybody thinks differently. Not everyone is not as passionate and serious as you, my dear Scorpio child. They don't think about these things, especially if they don't have any guidance from a parent, teaching them right from wrong. Another thing I can't stress enough is Scorpio children are so very EASILY hurt, and it's sad to say, but you might not even notice that they are upset, as they WILL ALWAYS hold all of their feelings inside, (in fear of being judged for feeling the way that they do)  and they will put on a normal face like nothing is wrong. Always check your Scorpio child's body language. If they were happy, skipping around, until you decided to sit down and talk to another child (for example). Now pay attention to what they do next, if they're being quiet and you ask them what is wrong, and they say nothing (their famous line). Always dig a little deeper & ask them what made them upset. Scorpio children can be very jealous and possessive when it comes to their loved ones, especially when it comes to attention. If anyone knows, I would, being that I was a jealous Scorpio child in my younger years. Oh how I wish I had someone who cared enough to dig a little deeper & help me get through those intense emotions that I felt as a child. It’s hard being a child and feeling so deeply, and not truly knowing or understanding why you feel the way you do. If you have more than one child, another piece of advice I will give, is to always be sure to treat your children equally, especially if one of them is a Scorpio. Being treated unfairly is one of the number one things that will leave a deep wound that they will have to heal from as an adult. Other than that, a Scorpio child is a loyal companion that will always have your back through the thick and thin. They are very understanding and they have huge hearts. They just want to feel loved & feel like they have someone that cares about them on their side, that they can always run to when they need someone to talk to.

Scorpio Physical Features:

.Deep, mysterious eyes/stare.

. Low husky/sexy voice.

. Square forehead & jaw.

. Flat cheek bones & wide teeth.

. Thin top lip.

. Broad shoulders/big or thick arms

. Nice ass

. Men usually have a nice big upper build with large muscular arms.

. Intense/serious demeanor or a "resting bitch face" which makes them stand out from the crowd.

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